Poop Master Flex
Mid-Card Championship Winner
It's a fight I've seen a MILLION times yet one I've never quite understood. Why is it that people always have to fight over a meal check or a bar tab or something like that. For example, I asked my gf if she wanted to go out and she said I have to wait till payday, I asked her I can just pay its no issue and she completely lost it on me. Now this isn't something I've just seen today, it's something I see all the time. 2 people go out, they have a great time then the check comes, someone offers to pay, then the other person says "no, I got this" and then out of no where a fight breaks out between the 2.
The only logical explanation I can think of is 2 things:
1) Foolish Pride, as in one person just CAN'T have someone else pay for them even if they are just being nice.
2) They have to be a big shot.
Is it really that big a deal if someone else is gracious enough to pick up a tab, and is it something that truly warrants to have a fight over? Personally I always offer but if someone insists on picking up the tab I have zero issues letting them, the way I look at it is that it was nice of that person and its a little more money in your pocket.
With that rant said I have 3 questions:
1. Do you always offer to pay for a meal?
2. If someone else offers is it a reason to get in a fight over?
PS. Sorry for the random ass topic as its just something that I feel should never be an issue and yet I've seen some pretty massive fights break out over this one instance which I've seen more times than I can count. Besides, it happened to me today so its fresh on the mind and I'm curious to see what others think.
The only logical explanation I can think of is 2 things:
1) Foolish Pride, as in one person just CAN'T have someone else pay for them even if they are just being nice.
2) They have to be a big shot.
Is it really that big a deal if someone else is gracious enough to pick up a tab, and is it something that truly warrants to have a fight over? Personally I always offer but if someone insists on picking up the tab I have zero issues letting them, the way I look at it is that it was nice of that person and its a little more money in your pocket.
With that rant said I have 3 questions:
1. Do you always offer to pay for a meal?
2. If someone else offers is it a reason to get in a fight over?
PS. Sorry for the random ass topic as its just something that I feel should never be an issue and yet I've seen some pretty massive fights break out over this one instance which I've seen more times than I can count. Besides, it happened to me today so its fresh on the mind and I'm curious to see what others think.