red ass skull muhfukkah
Dooooooooooooom
Last night my girlfriend told me that she was pregnant, but that the baby is not mine. Now for the last 2 months or so we took a break because after about 5 years together we decided some time away from each other might be needed. So when she had sex with the other guy, she wasn't cheating on me or anything and she swears on the child that it only happened once at a time when she was extremely confused and vulnerable.
I am pissed of at her that she had sex with him because I had no intentions of sleeping with another woman in our time away and I just felt that me and her had a certain bond that was beyond such things. I understand why she did it and the I know the situation but the one thing that it's affected me the most is it has destroyed all trust I have of her and has dealt a pretty big blow to my self-esteem (which was already pretty low).
The big problem though is that the guy doesn't think its his, he thinks its mine. I know its not because we didn't have sex in the time frame of her getting pregnant. If she got pregnant from me, she would have been pregnant a month or so sooner. But because of this he has told her he wants nothing to do with the kid and will not be in its life, which is a pretty dick move. So she and I have gotten back together and I decided that I will be this baby's father and I will raise it like it's my own.
It seems dumb and I'm sure many people will tell me so but there isn't a person alive that I love more than her and if I'm not in her life helping her with the baby, no one else will. I'm still extremely confused and I've basically been losing my mind and I'm pretty much as depressed as can be but I still feel like this is what I should do. I haven't talked to anyone about this except her and I just want to know from someone else that this is what I should be doing and that it's the right thing to do.
Sorry for unloading like that, I usually don't post or talk about things that go on in my life but I'm just kind of lost, ya know? This is not me asking for sympathy it's just me getting something off of my chest and asking for some advice.
I am pissed of at her that she had sex with him because I had no intentions of sleeping with another woman in our time away and I just felt that me and her had a certain bond that was beyond such things. I understand why she did it and the I know the situation but the one thing that it's affected me the most is it has destroyed all trust I have of her and has dealt a pretty big blow to my self-esteem (which was already pretty low).
The big problem though is that the guy doesn't think its his, he thinks its mine. I know its not because we didn't have sex in the time frame of her getting pregnant. If she got pregnant from me, she would have been pregnant a month or so sooner. But because of this he has told her he wants nothing to do with the kid and will not be in its life, which is a pretty dick move. So she and I have gotten back together and I decided that I will be this baby's father and I will raise it like it's my own.
It seems dumb and I'm sure many people will tell me so but there isn't a person alive that I love more than her and if I'm not in her life helping her with the baby, no one else will. I'm still extremely confused and I've basically been losing my mind and I'm pretty much as depressed as can be but I still feel like this is what I should do. I haven't talked to anyone about this except her and I just want to know from someone else that this is what I should be doing and that it's the right thing to do.
Sorry for unloading like that, I usually don't post or talk about things that go on in my life but I'm just kind of lost, ya know? This is not me asking for sympathy it's just me getting something off of my chest and asking for some advice.