You know back in the day, an attitude problem was as easy to fix as it was to whack you in the mouth. Behavior problems were common, but nothing outside parent's control. Nowadays... Not the same. Hell, there isn't even such a thing as being a brat or ill behaved is there? Now it's that they have some condition like craving for attention or have psychological trauma of some kind. It's not that simple anymore. Yeah, you have legit cases like Autism. But when it's not that, it's stuff like craving attention or repressed memories or some other stuff parents wouldn't know unless taken to a psychologist. Which is something else. Parent's, instead of enforcing discipline, would rather choose a shrink to figure out what's wrong instead.
Thing is, is this better? Or was our antiquated and more simple way of just enforcing disciple better? With a shrink, you find some repressed issues you could never solve by cutting TV off for a month. But by relying more on that than your own parenting, what does that say about your skills as parents? Or the child's ability to learn what's right and what's wrong? I mean telling the kid he's doing what he's doing because he has issues doesn't exactly tell him it's wrong.
In my eyes, parent's are the parents. And they should be one's to figure out how to solve the issues their kids have. Not a shrink. Kids are young and are still learning. Any repressed memory is repressed for a reason. It's no excuse for bad behavior. if your child has these kind of issues, it's simply because you're not that good of a parent.
Thing is, is this better? Or was our antiquated and more simple way of just enforcing disciple better? With a shrink, you find some repressed issues you could never solve by cutting TV off for a month. But by relying more on that than your own parenting, what does that say about your skills as parents? Or the child's ability to learn what's right and what's wrong? I mean telling the kid he's doing what he's doing because he has issues doesn't exactly tell him it's wrong.
In my eyes, parent's are the parents. And they should be one's to figure out how to solve the issues their kids have. Not a shrink. Kids are young and are still learning. Any repressed memory is repressed for a reason. It's no excuse for bad behavior. if your child has these kind of issues, it's simply because you're not that good of a parent.