In a way yes, but the key difference is that in the first, the person has a mental illness. Meaning, in some form or way, they are insanse. Thus, have the inability to think correctly..
I think you made my point for me here. People as a society look differently at people with a mental illness, because we can't technically quantify what mental illness is. As I stated previously, some people have degenerating mental conditions that will kill their brain, rendering them incapable of rational thought. As a Behavioral Therapist, Ive seen this firsthand. Shouldn't they be afforded the same option of dying with dignity before they too degeneate? Society says no, and classifies them as "insane", "delusional" "sad" and "irrational."
but in the second, the person is going to die no matter what the cause. His life is going to come to an end no matter what the cause. So if that were the case, would it not be better if he got to choose his own death rather than let the disease take his own life away? It's as the old saying goes: Means to an end.
In this case, dignity and fairness win out. Id rather see them not suffer. Your very spot on here, as it is a means to an end. My question is, do the ends justify the means?
I figure it should be classified as the same result in both logically and emotionally. See, it all depends on the situation. Most, if not everyone in the world will upon arrival of death will be fearful of the cause. Thus, they will enter through stages of insanity. When insane, they will not only cause emotional effects on their families, but on their own as well. So to prevent that, they choose to die prior to insanity so that they prevent such emotional conflicts as well as protect their dignity. The logic in this situation is overall connected to the emotional side.
But logic and emotions are on the complete opposite spectrums of our brain. Logic wins out when you decide not to sleep with the town ****e with STD's. Emotions win out when you decide to sleep with her anyway because you're horny and she's fine.
Death, and the impending thought of it, does lead to a form of insanity, and the lack of the ability to think with logic. As they progress with their illness, they become more emotional and irrational. I saw this firsthand with my grandmother, who was the most honorable, dignified woman Ive ever met. Again, I truly see your point here. I would have preferred not to see her the way she was, but I respected her choice and belief that she live, even if it pained me so to see her suffer.
Intense suffering. That is what active euthenasia is ment to prevent. So after reading this brief explanation (and the hints in your previous post), I can 100% conclude that this family member you spoke of, was your family member--your grandmother. Well, in the case of your grandmother, did she not suffer prior to dying. In those 6 months, how many times did she weep; how many times did you weep?; how many times did the rest of your family weep? I'm guessing a considerable amount.
I cried a considerable amount, and Im not an emotional person. I saw my family weep, and I saw my grandmother suffer. The illness had taken such an effect so quickly that she didnt have the chance to make a decision: By the time they had caught it, it was too late. She had already moved from her logical brain into her emotional one.
Now when she died? Was it expected? Did you know she was going to die? Did you get to say goodbye to her before she died? What about the rest of the family? Did they get to say goodbye as well? I'm sure some of you probably did--but not all of you.
It was quite expected, and she died in May of 2008, in my parents house. It was a Tuesday morning around 9:45 am. I didnt get to say goodbye, as I lived out of town at the time. I drove in every weekend to see her, so I saw her 3 days before she died. She barely knew who I was at the time. Not all of the family did get to say goodbye, but it was quite expected as she had been discharged from the hospital as there was nothing more that they could do. It was just drugs and time at that point.
But now, had she chosen her death 6 months before, she could have gardnered enough time to say her final goodbyes to everyone in her family. She would have been able to spend a few final momments with you and the others. Not only that, but the suffering would have been much less, both mentally and physically.
You're absolutely correct. But in this case, the disease had hit her so fast that the decisions about her care became my mother's, and she knew my grandmother would not want to die before its her "time", chosen by God, Alla, or whatever God you choose to believe in.
You said you got 6 months more out of her. But in the end, would it not have been better if the death would have been planned; that way the chapters in her life could have completely come to an end?
One of the things that I appreciated the most was that i got to make up for lost time. As I had stated, I had moved hours away for a job, and before she became ill, I never visited. I regretted that decision, and neglected my wife on the weekends for 6 months to drive in and see her every weekend. Even in her deteriorating state, which pained me emotionally, I treasured those weekends with her.
I'm sorry I dug deep into your grandmother's story; but it just gets to the point where you stop and think: is 6 months of her alive, worth the suffering that will bring because of it? Is it not better if her death comes while she still has dignity and a handful of the emotional struggles can be avoided? I know my answer. Death is a very dense subject. No one wants to experience death; and no one want to be anywhere close to it. But in reality, death is only a mile stone away. It will come; and it will take all of us. It's inavetable. The hard decisions you want to make will have to be made in the end. Whether done by you or done by God, they will be made. And really, isn't it better for you to choose then God?
Yes, I would rather choose the time and date and way of my death then God. There's no question about it. Id love to go in a state of bliss(highly medicated would be nice.... I kid, I kid!) surrounded by my loved ones. But in this case, the six months with her were worth every minute. Even though she had deteriorated mentally, she still knew who I was. I cried my way through those six months, but I still value and am thankful for them. In a way, Im contradicting myself, and I realize that.
(I don't think I've ever asked you whether you were a Christian or not, but I'll just go ahead and say it.)
I am a Christian, yes.
Playing God? So what? You're doing this because you want to prevent suffering inflicted; you're not doing it because of some [possibly] fictional character from the bible. God frowns on this? Does God also frown on choice? The choice to die with dignity? What about inavetable deaths? Does he rather people sufer dying by nature then by them choosing to die quick and painless? No. God wants people to live as happyiest as possible; and if a death is inavetable and the said person would die happy with choosing his own death, then I don't see why it should be this way.
No, I believe that God gave us all free will to make the decisions for ourselves. But there also becomes a responsibility that comes with those choices. And youre point is very well taken. I happen to believe in God, but Im very rational as well. For myself, personally, I would prefer to die with dignity rather then to die a slow painful death while my mind deteriorates. I do agree that choice should be afforded to people if they so choose, even if I do believe that God frowns on it.
Exactly. I'm sorry to bring up your grandmother again, but if she is going to die, then the best thing would be for her to choose her own death--and not the opposit. Which is why I believe Active Euthenasia is the right way to go if a person is on death's row.
You mean if someone has a terminal disease? When I think death row, I think of a person in prison whose committed a heinous crime. The selfish, emotional part of me is thankful my grandmother lived those 6 months. The logical part of my brain can acknowledge that the best thing for her MAY have been for her to choose her time of death when she was in the frame of mind to make said choice. I honestly believe, however, that she would have found it far more dignified to die how she did then to die through Euthanasia, because of her religious beliefs.
That's an interesting point. At the end of the day, it should come to what the person thinks is right and what he or she wants to die. But then again, my argument was never that active euthenasia should be used for ALL of those on death's row. But rather, it should be available as an option if said patients do not believe that they will be able to make it through such an experience.
There's not much I can really add here, you're spot on about it. I would never look down on a person who decided to die because they cant make it through an experience, be it emotional or a terminal illness.
But yea, it should be up to the person themselves to decide what they want to do. Though, I will say that passive euthenasia is a stupid way to go.
Incredibly stupid. Its choosing to die and suffer? I dont understand the logic as to why one would want to die this way. The only people who should are those in prison: The rapists, murderers, serial killers. They dont deserve more.
Nah, you're not being harsh. Rapists and serial killers are a whole different story. They are nothing more than scum and deserve to die. But that's more of an issue that has to do with the Death Penalty, which I see you made a post in my thread.
I agree here completely, as I know Ive made my point here quite.....strong?
It's only harm if you see it as harm. As pointed out before, the dignity as well as the morality involved in the issue far outweigh the ethicality(?) iin this situation. But of course, when it comes to the law, it is the almighty superior. What the law says go. Does not matter what us small folks believe in, it matters what the law says. And I believe that's the only rea; reason why people don't view active euthenasia as something that should be done. It is the law that has everyone so fixated on it being wrong. Alas, I digress. My point that I am for active euthenasia still stands.
Harm is in the mind of the believer. If a person believes that it is wrong, no matter their condition, active euthanasia should never take place. The idea of it is inherently flawed in that it allows doctors to play God(I know, i said it again!) when they're flawed human beings. And youre right, law is the reason why active euthanasia is frowned upon. But in the end, law is only a list of rules a governing body sets down, not a set of principles by which one lives their life. I believe that it should be on a case by case basis, so its hard for me to say that I support, or am against, active euthanasia. Color me on the fence right now.
