We all have certain things about our lives we don't want other people to know. There are just some deep or dark secrets we will go to extraordinary lengths to protect, because we are either ashamed of the secret or we are terrified of how other people will react if the secret becomes known. But in the end, is it really worth it? Is it worth all of the stress and strain to constantly protect something that will eventually become known? Because let's face it, no matter how hard you try, the truth will come out sooner or later.
I used to be the type of person to try and protect certain stuff I didn't want other people to know about me, but as I became older, I started to realize it's just not worth it in the end. You're just going to end up pissing yourself off, certain friends or family members will eventually become suspicious after a while, and no matter how hard you try.....they are going to catch you sooner or later. It may take them a month, it may take them a year, it could even take them a decade, but the truth is eventually going to come out. And in the end, you're going to be the one who suffers the most.
The same thing can be said about lying. Now of course we all might tell little white lies that won't have any huge repercussions. For example, you might have dinner at a family members house. The food might taste like shit, but you'll lie and say "It was good" because you don't want to hurt their feelings. Or if you have a girlfriend, she might ask you if she looks fat in a certain dress. No of course most guys will probably give a resounding "No", and again this is done because you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Then again, there are some people who will just tell it like it is. Some people appreciate the honesty, but others might look at this type of attitude as a way of being mean.
Then there are lies that can come back to bite you. When I was younger, I had a bad habit of keeping my report cards and interim reports from my parents. I did this because I pretty much always received bad grades, and I knew my parents would go ballistic if they found out. Well, I hid the report cards and interim reports for years, and of course, my parents found out about it 90% of the time. And every time they found out about it, they were extremely pissed. Again, you can't hide forever, someone will discover the truth eventually.
Is it really worth it to protect secrets? Is it really worth it to lie about stuff that can come back and bite you?
Also, please DO NOT share any secrets or lies if you don't want to or if you don't feel comfortable sharing them.
I used to be the type of person to try and protect certain stuff I didn't want other people to know about me, but as I became older, I started to realize it's just not worth it in the end. You're just going to end up pissing yourself off, certain friends or family members will eventually become suspicious after a while, and no matter how hard you try.....they are going to catch you sooner or later. It may take them a month, it may take them a year, it could even take them a decade, but the truth is eventually going to come out. And in the end, you're going to be the one who suffers the most.
The same thing can be said about lying. Now of course we all might tell little white lies that won't have any huge repercussions. For example, you might have dinner at a family members house. The food might taste like shit, but you'll lie and say "It was good" because you don't want to hurt their feelings. Or if you have a girlfriend, she might ask you if she looks fat in a certain dress. No of course most guys will probably give a resounding "No", and again this is done because you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Then again, there are some people who will just tell it like it is. Some people appreciate the honesty, but others might look at this type of attitude as a way of being mean.
Then there are lies that can come back to bite you. When I was younger, I had a bad habit of keeping my report cards and interim reports from my parents. I did this because I pretty much always received bad grades, and I knew my parents would go ballistic if they found out. Well, I hid the report cards and interim reports for years, and of course, my parents found out about it 90% of the time. And every time they found out about it, they were extremely pissed. Again, you can't hide forever, someone will discover the truth eventually.
Is it really worth it to protect secrets? Is it really worth it to lie about stuff that can come back and bite you?
Also, please DO NOT share any secrets or lies if you don't want to or if you don't feel comfortable sharing them.