This is a growing issue that gets worse every day. Seniority used to mean something. Older people were regarded as wise mentors with very respected opinions. Not so much anymore. It isn't just the elderly that I'm talking about. The further down you go in age categories, the less respect you see.... Middle Aged people not respecting the elderly.... Young adults not respecting middle agers OR the elderly.... Teens not respecting anybody older than them.... It seems as though people just do not show respect for ANYONE who happens to be older than them, with a few exceptions.
I have experienced it as a non-traditional college student (24 year old, surrounded by the 18-21 crowd). I am a member of an organization on campus that I used to be proud to be a part of. Not anymore. When I first got in back in 2005 when I was a freshman, there were 70 members. I am the last remaining active member from that group of 70, as the others graduated or quit. Now, you'd THINK that the other actives would listen to my ideas and respect my opinions, as I know more about how the organization worked in the past and have the most membership experience, right? WRONG. I am treated rudely at meetings and no one in the active group seems to care about my say anymore now. I remember back when senior members of organizations were counted on when new directions for the group were needed.... not ignored constantly. I would have quit, but I decided to stick around since I care about what happens to the group that I devoted 10 semesters to being in. That, plus I am friends with a lot of the alumni members.
I don't understand what happened to make seniority a BAD thing. It used to earn someone respect, not the other way around. I'm just glad I'm seeing this now in my last year of college, rather than in the workplace once I get older. I'm guilty of it too, not always liking the opinions of those who are older than me, but I still make it a point to listen to them and take what they have to say into consideration! More people should do the same because it's the right thing to do, that person might know something that could benefit you!
Has this ever happened to you? Have people started treating you rudely if you became one of the older members of an organization? What did you do about it? What are your thoughts on the lack of respect shown by someone younger to someone older, regardless of how big or small the age gap is?
I have experienced it as a non-traditional college student (24 year old, surrounded by the 18-21 crowd). I am a member of an organization on campus that I used to be proud to be a part of. Not anymore. When I first got in back in 2005 when I was a freshman, there were 70 members. I am the last remaining active member from that group of 70, as the others graduated or quit. Now, you'd THINK that the other actives would listen to my ideas and respect my opinions, as I know more about how the organization worked in the past and have the most membership experience, right? WRONG. I am treated rudely at meetings and no one in the active group seems to care about my say anymore now. I remember back when senior members of organizations were counted on when new directions for the group were needed.... not ignored constantly. I would have quit, but I decided to stick around since I care about what happens to the group that I devoted 10 semesters to being in. That, plus I am friends with a lot of the alumni members.
I don't understand what happened to make seniority a BAD thing. It used to earn someone respect, not the other way around. I'm just glad I'm seeing this now in my last year of college, rather than in the workplace once I get older. I'm guilty of it too, not always liking the opinions of those who are older than me, but I still make it a point to listen to them and take what they have to say into consideration! More people should do the same because it's the right thing to do, that person might know something that could benefit you!
Has this ever happened to you? Have people started treating you rudely if you became one of the older members of an organization? What did you do about it? What are your thoughts on the lack of respect shown by someone younger to someone older, regardless of how big or small the age gap is?