I have been working on a theory lately. For those of you that can read basic words, it is stated in the thread title. So what I want to discuss here is how your teenage years effect your social development. I believe that it does this greatly, and here are some componets to my so-called theory on it.
Firstly, I believe the way you are treated, or how you socially interact, in high school will determine how you act in the rest of your life. For example, if you are bullied and shunned be your peers in high school, then you may enter your college years with a low self-esteem and not interact with many people because you believe they won't like you. This will lead to you being a loner in the future.
Another example would be a girl that is abused or raped or otherwise mis-treated in many relationships in high school. This is a secnario that could lead your development in many different ways. Said girl could grow-up thinking all guys are like that, and turn lesbian or just shy away from sexual relationships, or maybe even go as far as to not even wanting a platonic relationship with men. Or this could also lead her psychological development into believing she is nothing more than a toy for men, and she could grow up to be a prostitute or simply a "****e" that sleeps around. It could even lead her to such extremes as a serial killer secnario due to the abuse she took earlier in life.
I also believe that past ecperiences in teenage years can lead to sub-concious behaviors in future years. Anybody familiar with the Psychodynamic field of Psychological Studies will get what I'm talking about as I explain it. For example, a person in the future may develop bulimic tendancies due to being bullied in high school due to weight issues. Or somebody may have dreams or other recurring pshychological issues about raping someone, due to being raped in their teenage years. This is something that has actually thought to be the cause of many psychological issues.
So, discuss this. Does anybody think that your teenage years have a significant effect on your future, and if so, how much. Or should all teenage problems of depression and bullying and such be dismissed as "stupid teenage drama" and should we not worry about the effects of it?
Firstly, I believe the way you are treated, or how you socially interact, in high school will determine how you act in the rest of your life. For example, if you are bullied and shunned be your peers in high school, then you may enter your college years with a low self-esteem and not interact with many people because you believe they won't like you. This will lead to you being a loner in the future.
Another example would be a girl that is abused or raped or otherwise mis-treated in many relationships in high school. This is a secnario that could lead your development in many different ways. Said girl could grow-up thinking all guys are like that, and turn lesbian or just shy away from sexual relationships, or maybe even go as far as to not even wanting a platonic relationship with men. Or this could also lead her psychological development into believing she is nothing more than a toy for men, and she could grow up to be a prostitute or simply a "****e" that sleeps around. It could even lead her to such extremes as a serial killer secnario due to the abuse she took earlier in life.
I also believe that past ecperiences in teenage years can lead to sub-concious behaviors in future years. Anybody familiar with the Psychodynamic field of Psychological Studies will get what I'm talking about as I explain it. For example, a person in the future may develop bulimic tendancies due to being bullied in high school due to weight issues. Or somebody may have dreams or other recurring pshychological issues about raping someone, due to being raped in their teenage years. This is something that has actually thought to be the cause of many psychological issues.
So, discuss this. Does anybody think that your teenage years have a significant effect on your future, and if so, how much. Or should all teenage problems of depression and bullying and such be dismissed as "stupid teenage drama" and should we not worry about the effects of it?