Should it be illegal to place an under age girl on the pill or any other form of contraception?
Personally I think yes. Allowing your 14 year old daughter, to go on the pill is basically saying, Here go have sex with the next guy you see.
No, it shouldn't be made illegal. Why? Because you can't be every single place your 14 year old Daughter is going to be. (Well, I suppose you could be, but you'd then ruin your relationship with her entirely by not trusting her in the slightest.)
The point I'm trying to make is, if you make it illegal, that is
NOT going to stop the underage teenager to still consider sex as something to do, or try.
It is encouraging them to have sex, and makes them think that it is a great thing to do.
Under this theory, you could also say Chemo is an encouraging way to tell Cancer patients that radiation is their friend and they should go get in/or around as much as possible.
Putting your child on birth control (ie. The Pill) is
NOT encouraging them. It's taking proper steps and measures in knowing you can not stop the event (ie. sex) from happening, short of once again being every single place your Daughter is.
Putting your child on the Pill, regardless what age, is if anything explaining to them about how much more responsible you need to be, before thinking about sex. Because of all the consequences that could come of it. STDs, HIV, Children.
You want to think simply put..
The Pill means I can have as much carefree sex as I want. But that isn't the case, and you're selfishly and foolishly ignoring that fact. All because you want to believe putting a 14 yr. old on the pill is only good, or rather bad, for trying to encourage them to go have sex. It's not. It's merely protecting them for the inevitable.
Its like putting a Smoke and Lighter into a kids hand, and walking away.
I did
not know second-hand sex could give me a form of cancer.
Fuck.. when I was always told I'd go blind from *********ing, I didn't think they meant it'd be due to cancer.
(no offense meant to cancer patients - if any was taken, I do apologize.)
But, most Girls i knew when i was that age, was on to stop them from getting pregnate.
Sounds like you knew a lot of ****es.
As it's been mentioned, birth control and "The Pill" aren't always used to cover a girl from getting pregnant.
whoow, they hand out Condoms over there? over here we have to pay for them. I know that. but putting them onto contreception is encouraging it.again, Safely is "accidently" leaving a condom or two around the room. not giving them a reason. "its ok, I'm on the pill we can have sex and won't need a condom".teach them yes, But again, it is encouraging them.
Putting a 14 yr. old on birth control is
not telling them it's okay to go out and fuck. Only a moron would think like that.
It's merely taking precautions for a stage in life, that is inevitable. As I've said.
And condoms should always be used with new partners, unless you're 99.9% sure your partner is safe and clean. But once again, giving out free condoms aren't openly inviting your children to go have tons of sex. It's merely teaching them what they'll learn about one way or another before they're "of proper age" to have sex, anyways.
I once went out with a girl that was younger then me (by a year) and we went out for three months until she had the needle. I had no plans on having sex with her and she knew it, so what was she thinking?
My guess is about the guy she was cheating on you with.
Because, Most girls are like this. you might not be, your friends might not be.
If you just said
"most", then categorized a group in saying
"but you and your friends might not be" wouldn't that be an oxymoron?
in my highschool alone, every girl that was on the pill in my grade, ended up pregnate, Either that year or the year after. so it didn't really work now did it.
Sounds to me like they weren't
properly on the pill then.
Sparky, birth control protects against unwanted pregnancies, but it doesn't make morons smarter. It's not a "smart pill". And there is a good chance, most of those girls were likely ****e-ish to begin with. There are several out there, ya know.