I was never a big Blink 182 fan, and often found them to be radio changing material honestly.
That was until I saw the video for(and heard for the first time)
"Stay Together for the kids". I loved the social awareness at the beginning of the video, which said "fifty percent of households are destroyed by divorce." Not changed, not re-arranged, destroyed. So fitting.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1BFHYtZlAU
I love the second verse especially.
"Their anger hurts my ears, been going strong for seven years.
Rather then fix the problems, they never solve them, it makes no sense at all.I see them every day, we get along so why cant they?
If this is what he wants, and what she wants, then why is there so much pain?"
i don't come from a family of divorce, thankfully, but most of my close friends do. I remember vividly having a conversation with a friend of mine who told me his parents were divorcing, and asking me to help him understand it.(i majored in psychology and was in school at the time) I couldn't, try as I may. On my way home, this song came on. And it put into perspective what my friend was dealing with. There's really no way to look at divorce from a teenagers perspective, and see it as a good thing when you love both your parents. This song really struck me, and definitely gave me a new perspective on them. I have another friend whose parents did exactly that. They stayed together for the sake of the kids. They divorced, but lived in the same house until the kids were grown to provide them a stable environment. Whether it was the right or wrong choice isnt for me to say.
This song just reminds me of both friends in particular, and it really is a darker, more meaningful song from a band Ive grown to actually like and appreciate.