A rational 21-year old wouldn't ethically want to get physical with a 14-year old. But to the guy's defence, when you love someone, and that person insists you to make love with them, probably every other day... you will eventually give in. You wouldn't want to hurt your partner every time (and teenagers get hurt easily) by saying stuff like "I can't do this, you are too young," or "Let's wait four more years." It will just destroy your relationship. In that case, you have to make a choice between ethics and the person you love, and it's hard to pick the morally high ground. Also, not all days are similar; there will be times when you would want to be physical... and during times like these, it will be tougher to resist the urge, especially if you have committed the act before and it didn't feel bizarre or wrong after it was over.
Phenom, bro, if you haven't talked to his mother yet... don't keep an aim in mind. You have decided to let her know, and that's where your role ends in the matter. Don't say things like "you know, it's wrong and it's illegal..." or make her react the way you want her to react. Anything more, and you will be doing more than splitting the two. The 21-year old would be f***ed, we all know that, the 14-year old would be badly hurt emotionally, that is something you will have to think about as well, and your sister would keep matters (even those involving her) away from you because you are not someone that listens and suggests, but someone that reacts the very way that the person confiding in you doesn't want you to react.
Anyway, good luck to you, and do let us know how everything went.
Last edited by Reflection : 01-16-2016 at 08:56 AM.